Something Very Sad Happened
A Toddler's Guide to Understanding Death
A Gentle, Supportive Story to Help Young Children Understand the Death of a Loved One
This compassionate picture book gives very young children a simple and honest way to understand death and the feelings that come with losing someone they love. Written for two- and three-year-olds, the story uses clear language, warm illustrations, and developmentally appropriate explanations to help children learn what death means, why sadness is natural, and how love continues even after someone has died. The text is designed to be personalized, with select words printed in red to cue caregivers to insert the name and pronouns of the person who died so the story can reflect each family’s unique experience.
A detailed Note to Parents and Caregivers offers additional guidance on how to talk with very young children about death, respond to difficult questions, navigate funerals or memorials, and create meaningful ways to remember the person who died. The note supports adults who may be grieving themselves while helping a child feel safe, understood, and reassured.
Key Features
- Developmentally Appropriate Language: Explains death in simple and concrete terms for two- and three-year-old children.
- Emotional Reassurance: Helps children understand that sadness is normal and that their love for the person who died continues.
- Personalized Storytelling: Red color-coding allows adults to insert relevant names and pronouns to match the child’s experience.
- Practical Caregiver Support: Includes a detailed Note to Parents and Caregivers with guidance for conversations, questions, funerals, and remembrance.
- Trusted Publisher: From Magination Press, the children’s imprint of the American Psychological Association, experts in child development and emotional well-being.
| Format | Your Price | Add |
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978-1-4338-2266-7
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$16.99 |
| Interest Level | Preschool |
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| Reading Level | Grade 2 |
| Genre | Picture Books |
| Copyright | 2016 |
| Publisher | Magination Press, American Psychological Association |
| Imprint | Magination Press — American Psychological Association |
| Language | English |
| Number of Pages | 32 |
| Publication Date | 2025-01-01 |
Author: Bonnie Zucker
Bonnie Zucker, PsyD, is a licensed psychologist in private practice. She received her undergraduate degree from George Washington University, her master’s degree from the University of Baltimore, and her doctoral degree from the Illinois School of Professional Psychology in Chicago.
Illustrator: Kim Fleming
Reviews
Booklist
“Essential, powerful, and psychologically researched resource to equip adults to model healthy grieving and help children at this age with loss.”—Booklist
School Library Journal
“No one likes to think about it, and even fewer plan for it, but explaining death to a toddler can be a difficult task. . . . The author acknowledges that a book on death written just for little ones is a bit niche but emphasizes in the foreword the need to properly discuss this tough situation with young children. . . . An important book to have on hand for those who serve toddlers.”—School Library Journal