Spring 2025

Something Very Sad Happened

A Toddler's Guide to Understanding Death

  • Interest Level: Preschool
  • Reading Level: Grade 2

A Gentle, Supportive Story to Help Young Children Understand the Death of a Loved One

This compassionate picture book gives very young children a simple and honest way to understand death and the feelings that come with losing someone they love. Written for two- and three-year-olds, the story uses clear language, warm illustrations, and developmentally appropriate explanations to help children learn what death means, why sadness is natural, and how love continues even after someone has died. The text is designed to be personalized, with select words printed in red to cue caregivers to insert the name and pronouns of the person who died so the story can reflect each family’s unique experience.

A detailed Note to Parents and Caregivers offers additional guidance on how to talk with very young children about death, respond to difficult questions, navigate funerals or memorials, and create meaningful ways to remember the person who died. The note supports adults who may be grieving themselves while helping a child feel safe, understood, and reassured.

Key Features

  • Developmentally Appropriate Language: Explains death in simple and concrete terms for two- and three-year-old children.
  • Emotional Reassurance: Helps children understand that sadness is normal and that their love for the person who died continues.
  • Personalized Storytelling: Red color-coding allows adults to insert relevant names and pronouns to match the child’s experience.
  • Practical Caregiver Support: Includes a detailed Note to Parents and Caregivers with guidance for conversations, questions, funerals, and remembrance.
  • Trusted Publisher: From Magination Press, the children’s imprint of the American Psychological Association, experts in child development and emotional well-being.
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978-1-4338-2266-7
$16.99
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Interest Level Preschool
Reading Level Grade 2
Genre Picture Books
Copyright 2016
Publisher Magination Press, American Psychological Association
Imprint Magination Press — American Psychological Association
Language English
Number of Pages 32
Publication Date 2025-01-01
Text Type Fiction
BISACS JUV039030, JUV039050, JUV015030
Dewey [E]
Dimensions 8 x 10
Features Note to adults, Original artwork, and Reviewed

Author: Bonnie Zucker

Bonnie Zucker, PsyD, is a licensed psychologist in private practice. She received her undergraduate degree from George Washington University, her master’s degree from the University of Baltimore, and her doctoral degree from the Illinois School of Professional Psychology in Chicago.

Illustrator: Kim Fleming

Reviews

Booklist

“Essential, powerful, and psychologically researched resource to equip adults to model healthy grieving and help children at this age with loss.”—Booklist

School Library Journal

“No one likes to think about it, and even fewer plan for it, but explaining death to a toddler can be a difficult task. . . . The author acknowledges that a book on death written just for little ones is a bit niche but emphasizes in the foreword the need to properly discuss this tough situation with young children. . . . An important book to have on hand for those who serve toddlers.”—School Library Journal